“I want to play a little game with you” – a phrase that can be hardly sexual and mostly terrifying. Today we will try to talk about more pleasant types of entertainment. We all need to bring more fun colors into our relationship. A love is a game that takes two of you, overall. Even if both of you are pretty serious in everyday life, you could be the biggest idiots behind closed doors, right?
Imagine that you have a girlfriend (or you have her indeed). She is pretty, nice and overall your relationship is almost perfect…but sometimes you start to think that it lacks spice. It’s all like a broken record: you rant, she rants, you have routine issues during the workday, you discuss it eating stale pizza and it almost feels like aired tomatoes start rotting your soul. It went dark pretty quick, I agree. So both of you start thinking whether you belong to each other. Some people might go to a counsellor together.
Wait, don’t waste time and money. It requires no dinero for me to say that your relationships have reached the phase of both-sided acceptance and…deadly boredom. Okay, fellow, it is the very time you should try games.
Even psychologists always recommend this fun time in order to bring life to a lifeless duet. There was no accident in the first sentence because each time we talk about ‘adult games’, something sexual and even wrong comes to mind. But we will touch upon that topic as well. You just so need Gamification!
GAMIFICATION OF YOUR RELATIONSHIP: WHY AND WHY NOT?
First of all, what is gamification? It is not a nerd word. Mother Wikipedia explains that “Gamification is the application of game-design elements and game principles in non-game contexts”. How it applies to your everyday life? Hmm, if the term still seems a little sketchy, let me explain better. You basically turn your life into a real game (no, it's not roleplaying only). And no, this doesn’t concern alternative reality, though, we wish! You invent weird stuff and incorporate it into your routine.
Why is gamification important?
1. First of all, it broadens your mind. Seeing some alternative pictures of life (mostly pleasant) brings joy and leaves so much space for invention and creativity.
2. It lessens stress. The best way to get away from your usual routine is to turn into someone different for a while.
3. You don’t annoy each other. As you are now Zelda or Super Mario Brothers, working as teammates never brings up daily problems. Sure, you may kill each other after an MMORPG game, but it only makes you closer. All in all, one mate’s loss is still much joy for your couple.
4. You can become better in some fields. It’s called gamification in education. There are a lot of really smart games on the Internet that will really bring you together AND boost some skills,
5. It leaves no space for negativity. Come on, who will yell at you because of dirty laundry when you are involved in doing something funny (sexy, cool, unusual). This electricity is crucial for every couple.
6. Your shyness disappears. And yes, for some people, playing a different character is impossible. It can be a school trauma or insecurity overall. But think about it from a different perspective. If you perform an unusual action more than 5 times, it slowly and gradually becomes less of a problem for you.
7. It spices up sex life. It is a no-brainer. When you come to an alpha-friend, 9 out of 10 situations he will recommend changing roles and positions in bed. You become sexually charged, free-spirited and so fun when you try stuff like this.
So, you understand gamification is almost crucial for a healthy relationship. Where to start? What to do and how to treat your significant other while you decide to play a little game? First, ask her if she is down for an experiment. You can start from scratch. Usually, it is quite easy to ask a younger girl, but what to do if you are 40+? How to make your Ukrainian bride playful?
SOME GAMES TO PLAY WITH YOUR GIRLFRIEND AT HOME
It is very easy. They are carefully divided into three categories: board games, video games and sex games. You may find any fitting variant and choose one game that is close to your type of temperament. Here are some board games to play with your girlfriend:
1. Never have I ever
Who is this person sitting at the same table with you? Maybe she at least once tried the baby food or ate from the bowl of her cat? Or dropped something important in the toilet? And maybe, behind her smile, there are some memories of how she played the nurse? You will never know the answers to these questions if you never play a frank alcohol game called Never have I ever. The goal is to answer quickly and take a shot every time you have done something stupid or sexual. Let’s see how open and daring you are!
2. Desires
Desires carry all gamers into the world of insane things, desperate actions and unpredictable decisions. All sorts of Desires are for every taste, including spicy Fantasy Flirting :) The goal is to write down your Desires and mix all the little pieces of paper. Whatever you choose- try to be a daredevil! Be open, quick and inventive in order to win her heart and a set of games.
3. Uno
Uno involves some other people, but instead of making it a boring game for British home-sitters, count how many times each of you fails and then tries to win in some different ways. Who knows, maybe in the bedroom? It’s a good game to play with a girlfriend when both of you are a little bit drunk and funny as hell.
4. Card games
It’s the easiest way to get laid – just be a good player and get a set of rules. Whenever she loses the round, she has to bring one of your desire into reality.
5. Adventure time board game (for nerds and children)
This card game is based on a fictional game from the series itself. Remember, we repeatedly met the scenes of Jake and Finn dueling! With the help of the game, you can find out who is really cool! Do you wonder why they were so passionately turned into it? Now you have the opportunity to swap places with the main characters and fight with each other! Among the cards, you will surely recognize many of the cartoon characters and even more, some maps are directly transferred to the desktop version of the game directly from the cartoon, for example, the card "Pig".
6. Sexual text game
Games to play with your girlfriend over text are: trying to guess what the other partner is doing. It is really fun and awakens your imagination. Until everything goes down and you have virtual sex (maybe).
7. Nerd game Number 2
The board game "Elemental Storm" is 6 completely ready decks for the strategic board game Berserk. Through the lands of Laar since the time of the Cataclysm, the incessant Storm is raging ... Can you cope with it? You have to recruit your army, stand at the head of a detachment of fantastic creatures, think about how to deploy troops, where to strike, when to put into the reserve. And do not dare give the enemy even the slightest chance to come to his senses! This game was awarded the prize among Young Association of Gamers.
Okay, mowing to the computer games.
8. Kinnect Game
Kinect Party is an open-ended game, providing thirty-six different modes that incorporate features of the Kinect motion-sensing and camera system. Players can select any of the thirty-six modes, or opt to have the game randomly select modes and cycle through them every few minutes. It brings you fun time because two people must operate together throughout a session. You may watch a lot of video materials on Youtube.
9. The Wolf Among Us
The Wolf Among Us is a graphic adventure game, played from a third-person perspective. The player controls protagonist Bigby Wolf, who must investigate the murder of a woman. Throughout the game, the player will explore various three-dimensional environments, such as apartment buildings and a bar. When exploring the environment, the player may find an object they can interact with; when this occurs, they must move a cursor over the object to select and examine it. This game is good because it requires no gameplay whatsoever. It is perfect to play with your girlfriend.
10. Mortal Kombat X
The Mortal Kombat X is a fighting game in which two characters fight against each other using a variety of attacks, including special moves, and the series' trademark gruesome finishing moves. The game allows two players to face each other (either locally or online), or a single player to play against the CPU. It’s a classic boyfriend girlfriend game overall.
11. Let’s not forget about sexual games. They can be pretty different
Blind kiss. This game is pretty simple, but that does not mean it's boring to play it. One of the participants is blindfolded. He holds his hands behind his back - according to the conditions of the game he cannot use them. The second player takes any position and freezes without moving. She "orders" those parts of the body where she would like to be kissed. The first participant randomly kisses a partner. The game continues until the blindfolded player completes the "order". After that, the partners change roles. The game can last long enough – first, player can purposely miss, and second – there are the so-called “hard-to-reach areas” of the body. Sex games to play with your girlfriend always involve many kisses.
Dirty games to play with your girlfriend involve reenacting famous scenes from the movies like 9 ½ Weeks when one of you takes the ice, blindfolds a partner and copies (or invites) the well-famous moves of two actors and their sexual game. Also, you may try more contemporary things like ’50 Shades of Gray’ or some other kinky stuff.
One of the most severe sexual game to play with your girlfriend involves some domination. There are only two rules: beware that there is no police near, and second - do not overreach, or your partner can think about your inclinations. It's not everyone who likes to live with a secret maniac. But the game itself is fascinating enough if your partner does not know about your plans. The main thing is a surprise. Everything can be organized both at home and in the street, but I do not advise you to wear tights on your head or a black hat, your passion can take everything seriously, but not everyone's heart is so strong.
Overall, there are dozens of portals to recommend you some games – from innocent and nerdy to openly hard and severe. The main aim is to stay cool with it. Be ready to experiment and to be open and sincere with each other – that is the main rule for your love game!
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